Belly Love
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You are entitled to your opinion, but I am sorry that you feel this way. I am sorry for anyone who lives their life with these pre-set standards and refuses to look beyond them.
I used to be like that, and I am so glad I am not anymore.
It is sad because people like you are in the majority
Hmmmm.... I definitely see this as an insult and hypocritical. You say that you appreciate variety and uniqueness, but if someone sees beauty differently than you, you "feel sorry for them" and assume they "refuse to look beyond set standards".
I find it odd that many of you on here have made statements over and over about how "everyone is entitled to their opinion" and "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" yet, if anyone disagrees with your idea of beauty, you somehow feel your idea of beauty is OK and/or superior and they should feel shame for their preference. And then you ladies actually have the nerve to applaud each other for doing it!
A huge part of watching someone perform a dance, belly dance or otherwise, has A LOT to do with asthetics- and to not acknowledge this is just plain ignorant.
If you don't have a personal preference for watching a belly dancer lookswise during a performance, that's fine. It's also fine to prefer watching someone who looks a certain way. Rue never said that belly dancers have to look a certain way, she said that this is her personal preference. For anyone to say, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and then think someone should be felt sorry for because of what they find beautiful (which is a passive aggressive insult) is a flat out hypocrite!
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