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Old 09-02-2006, 02:31 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Dear Tarik,
Oh NOOOO, not you again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so happy!!!, how are you??? It's wonderful to see you here and I hope you get totally comfy. I LOVE this forum and I think you will, too.
Good answer above, though I would argue that the dance was developing before the advent of Badia Masabni taking to the stage, just as tap evolved in the cities of America before it got famous on the stage, and NOT for the entertainment of the tourists or soldiers, but as an entertainment for the Egyptian people. Saidi and Beledi became Raqs Sharghi in the more sophistocated city environment. Badia just notched it up to the stage.
Re: movement vocabulary. We have had this debate before, too, and while I believe there are movements tht specifically express femininity and masculinty, you believe that movement is genderless and does not have specific meaning, if I remember from some of our other debates. Movment is not dance, it is movement. Dance is certainly more specific than movement in its intent MOST of the time. In the case of belly dance, that movement is specifically intended to give a feminine message and essence. But, as you know, I am in favor of men belly dancing and always have been. The fact remains that in the Middle East, men who belly dance are breaking a social rule and looked down on even more than women. This again is a general comment, but very much based in fact.
We must keep in mind that social dancing is different than belly dance on the stage, however. I have met many men who get up and dance very well. But when I have asked them, they claim they are doing Shaabi or Beledi.... never Raqs Sharghi.

Dear Group,
Tarik and I have had this debate on another forum and in the process got to know each other and I have great respect and love for him. I hope he feels the same about me.

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A'isha

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Old 09-02-2006, 05:52 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Dear Tarik,
Oh NOOOO, not you again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so happy!!!, how are you??? It's wonderful to see you here and I hope you get totally comfy. I LOVE this forum and I think you will, too.


*IT'S THE A'ISHA! AHHHHHH:eek: (All the villagers go runing for cover)
Great to read you again.


Good answer above, though I would argue that the dance was developing before the advent of Badia Masabni taking to the stage, just as tap evolved in the cities of America before it got famous on the stage, and NOT for the entertainment of the tourists or soldiers, but as an entertainment for the Egyptian people.

*I would agree that the dance was evolving prior to Badia, but I also believe that it was due in large part to a response to the growing tourist trade. Music halls, or dance halls were foriegn concepts. Prior to this, people hired entertainers to come to their homes, as is still done in the rural communities throughout North Africa and the Middle East.

Saidi and Beledi became Raqs Sharghi in the more sophistocated city environment. Badia just notched it up to the stage.

*Well...Yes and no. Prior to the Mohamed Ali Street era that began around the turn of the century, the dance profession was dominated by the Ghawazee. They were definately existing in an urban environment.
As for Badia, you're right, things were evolving before her. She wasn't the first to open a nightclub in Egypt, but she did make some very important inovations in the presentation of the dance and mentored some of the top artists of the time who would go on to make their own contributions to the dance.

Re: movement vocabulary. We have had this debate before, too, and while I believe there are movements tht specifically express femininity and masculinty, you believe that movement is genderless and does not have specific meaning, if I remember from some of our other debates.

*Not really. I do believe that dance is more than just movement, I do believe that there are movements and gestures that are male and female, I just don't believe that the movement vocabulary is neccessarily "male" or "female". For example, I grew up seeing men move their hips in my culture, therefore, I didn't consider hip movements to be male or female.

Movment is not dance, it is movement. Dance is certainly more specific than movement in its intent MOST of the time.

*I agree. I think there has to be an infusion of emotion, personality and musical interpritation to make a movement dance.

In the case of belly dance, that movement is specifically intended to give a feminine message and essence.

In the case of the performance aspect as it was created in the 20th century, I agree. Socially however I don't. I think it gives a message and essence of sensuality though.

I had a discussion about this with Rakia Hassan this summer. She really loves my dancing, but she really has a hard time accepting male dancers. Why the contradiction? Because she says when I dance, I'm still a man, I'm being who and what I am. What she hates to see, is a man who trys to be feminine or expresses femininity in his dancing. This she can't accept. According to her and others I spoke to, a man should always express his masculinity, not try to copy or project a feminine persona.

But, as you know, I am in favor of men belly dancing and always have been.

*It took me a while to realize it at first, but I know.

The fact remains that in the Middle East, men who belly dance are breaking a social rule and looked down on even more than women. This again is a general comment, but very much based in fact.

I don't know how much lower than a whore you can get, considering that in some rural parts women still can be put to death by their families for sexual misconduct. "We had to kill her because she shamed our families honor, but at least she wasn't a male belly dancer, then we would have to kill her twice!".

The fact is that the Middle East in general is all about conformity. ANYTHING that goes against the norm is un acceptable. I don't know about other countries, but I know that Egypt in particular is an extreemly class concious society. Your, social background and the professions of your family carries a lot of weight on how you are perceived treated and how far you can go in society. Dance is not a high prestige profession at all. Even the male folk dancers have to put up with accusations and assumptions of homosexuality. As we all know, Raks Sharki is considered a female job because that is what it was designed to reflect. That is why, for most people in the Middle East its a woman's job and as we know, it's a shameful thing for a man to do "woman's work". Because Egypt is all about not being different, not sticking out, there are very few guys who will go against the grain. The other problem is finding a venue.

Tito is an exception to the rule because he has defied the norm and is now enjoying a measure of success as a result of it. It always takes a dynamic personality to create any real change in such societies. It must have been just as much of a shock when the first female performers started wearing the bedlah. Looking back those costumes were even more risque and showed a lot more skin than we do today. Can you imagine the impact it must of had on a society where the dress even for men was designed to conceal the body?

We must keep in mind that social dancing is different than belly dance on the stage, however. I have met many men who get up and dance very well. But when I have asked them, they claim they are doing Shaabi or Beledi.... never Raqs Sharghi.

*If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and tastes like a duck when you cook it...I would say it must be duck. If you want to call it a geraff...go right ahead, but it still tastes like duck to me!
Actually, I can understand why they would say it's not "belly dance". They do not want to be misunderstood or perceived as trying to be feminine or acting like women. So while they are in fact doing the same moves, they want to be clear that they are not intending or trying to immitate women.
Personally I hate being called a belly dancer for similar reasons, but also because I prefere to use the native language, so in Turkish I'm a chengi and in Arabic R'akas.

Dear Group,
Tarik and I have had this debate on another forum and in the process got to know each other and I have great respect and love for him. I hope he feels the same about me.

Regards,
A'isha
* Can I think about that for a second?....Yeah, I do! Birds of a feather have to stick together.

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Dear Tarik,
Yes, there have been Ghawazi in the cities for ever, but then that is
not "belly dance" and was performed by professonal entertainers.
I think belly dance developed as an entertainment among the people and was not separated out as done FOR an audience instead of by the people until later in its evolution, much like tap in this country. I agree that Badia is who got the eye of the public and made innovations to the dance that made it become performance art extraordinaire!!
Hmm, one can go lower in Arab society than being a prostitute by being a male prostitue. Even this dirty job should be left to women....
I also do not consider hip movements to be male or female, but I do consider the way in which they are done specifically by males and females to have gender meanings. This along with body carraige and other aspects, give the movement its very specific gender meaning, though the actual basis of the movement iself may not have one. (But, what movement is ever done in a vacuum, and in and of itself, except when breaking it down to teach it!!)
Tarik... on the "duck" thing we must disagree. I give the people of the Middle East credit for understanding what they are doing, and if they recognize differences between belly dance and other types of dance, then I feel that they know what they are talking about. Again, it comes not down to movement but to that now infamous word, "essence". And I can see these differences, too. It is not a matter of if one is moving the hips or whatever, it is more than that. It is nothing to do with movement and everything to do with how that movement is approached on psychological and cultural levels, I guess would be a way to try to say it. If THEY do not think they are belly dancing becasue they recognize the difference in the essence and feeling of the dances, then who am I to argue about it?
BTW, I have often wondered if Turkish dance audiences respond to men more positively than Arab ones. Can you give us some information about that? While I feel qualified to speak at length about Arabs, my Turkish knowledge is pretty limited.
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Old 09-02-2006, 11:23 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Dear Readers,

I've been trying to move some of these posts to threads where they more properly belong, and it is very difficult sorting them out, or how to work the system. I'm still trying. Please note, however, that this thread, "Feminine essenced dance," is for posts relevant to that discussion. I have not deleted any posts, just reported one, and that one not because the person disagreed with me, but used vulgar language.
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I can't believe I'm trolling. But Rico, why not simply remove the "vulgar language" from the post? If its essence didn't bother you?

I'm sorry, I forget that for many Americans what we consider normal speech is considered vulgar. I do apologise, not for swearing - which I didn't - but for referring bodily functions.
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Dear Readers,

The posts I have just moved, today, have been moved to the "Cultural Appreciation and BD History" thread in the Other Dance Stuff Forum. FYI, I also move my own posts when I re-read them and realize they aren't really on topic.

No posts have been deleted by me.
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Dear Tarik,
Yes, there have been Ghawazi in the cities for ever, but then that is
not "belly dance" and was performed by professonal entertainers.
I think belly dance developed as an entertainment among the people and was not separated out as done FOR an audience instead of by the people until later in its evolution, much like tap in this country.

*I think I understand what you're saying. I do agree that what we recognize today as Raks Sharki is very different from what was being done 150 years ago. I don't know if I would consider it a different dance as much as I would consider it an evolution, in much the same way that modern Jazz differs greatly from the big band sound of the 30's and 40's. I guess its just a matter of looking at the same thing from a different perspective.

I agree that Badia is who got the eye of the public and made innovations to the dance that made it become performance art extraordinaire!!
Hmm, one can go lower in Arab society than being a prostitute by being a male prostitue. Even this dirty job should be left to women....

* Yes, but there're so many of them never the less. thing is they can hide their dirt a lot easier than the women can. The operative word is "don't get caught".

I also do not consider hip movements to be male or female, but I do consider the way in which they are done specifically by males and females to have gender meanings. This along with body carraige and other aspects, give the movement its very specific gender meaning, though the actual basis of the movement iself may not have one.

*Yes I totally agree. I saw this very clearly haning around the party felucas on the Nile this summer, (the ones with all the neon lights and loud balasting music). The captins often hire street kids, (girls and gay kids), to dance on the prows to attract customers. I noticed that there was a very big difference in the essence expressed when the gay kids were dancing as compared to the "regular guys", even when they were doing the exact same movements, and yet still another level of difference when the girls danced.

(But, what movement is ever done in a vacuum, and in and of itself, except when breaking it down to teach it!!)

* this is true. I've always been of the opinion that it is the individual thqat gives the movement its life for want of a better word. this is why one person can do a movement and it looks happy and playfull, while another person doing the exact same movement makes it look erotic.

Tarik... on the "duck" thing we must disagree. I give the people of the Middle East credit for understanding what they are doing, and if they recognize differences between belly dance and other types of dance, then I feel that they know what they are talking about. Again, it comes not down to movement but to that now infamous word, "essence". And I can see these differences, too. It is not a matter of if one is moving the hips or whatever, it is more than that. It is nothing to do with movement and everything to do with how that movement is approached on psychological and cultural levels, I guess would be a way to try to say it. If THEY do not think they are belly dancing becasue they recognize the difference in the essence and feeling of the dances, then who am I to argue about it?

*I can understand this point of view, I would just say that one is the male expression and one is the female expression. However, I have met many guys who call what they do belly dancing as well. But I can understand those who would say that what they do is something different based on what they are expressing and their gender identity. I really don't care so much how they catagorize it, as long as they just do it and have fun. I think the positive engery it generates and that is shared for themselves and those around them to be more important than the semantics.

BTW, I have often wondered if Turkish dance audiences respond to men more positively than Arab ones. Can you give us some information about that? While I feel qualified to speak at length about Arabs, my Turkish knowledge is pretty limited.
Hugs to you,
A'isha

*You know, I guess it would be pretty much the same. My very first professioanl nightclub gig was in a Turkish establishment and I was very well received. Turkey does have a very strong and old tradition of the male dancers, and recent years they have resurfaced again and you can even buy DVDS of these traditional male dancers. In addition, there are now several male dancers in nightclubs there, so there does seem to be a level of acceptance there in the arena of professional male dancers. That having been said, I did read an article about a young dancer who was rescued by the police because his father had chained him to the bed to prevent him from dancing in public. He felt it was a shameful profession.

Personally, I remember a show I did in a Turkish restaurant where a waiter was gicving me a really hard time when he saw me in costume. He was telling me men don't dance like that in Turkey, there were never male dancers in Turkey and that the audience wouldn't accept me and everyone was going to laugh at me. Not only did they not laugh, but they demanded an encore! So I guess there are some who are fine with it as long as the performer gives a good show and others who can't wrap their heads around it for whatever reason.

On the whole though, I have found that North Africans, Moroccans, Algerians and Tunisisans, to be the most open to the idea of male performers.

By the way, regarding the felucas in Egypt and the gay kids. I was really surprised at how accepting the people on the boats were of them. The most popular boats were the ones that had the most flamboyant queens dancing on them. the people were really facinated with them and these were not "tourists", even though there were a lot of Gulf tourists, half of the clientele were native Egyptians from all economic backgrounds, especially the blue collar working class.

There was only one guy I saw that was really disturbed by them, (although he was a bit of an odd ball, probably blew his brains out on hash). He tried to rough up one of the kids dancing on the boat, but all the customers rushed to his defense. They thaught this guy was being a complete A hole and kept asking him what's his problem. and this is the same Cairo where not a nightclub in sight would hire a guy to dance no matter how good he is gay or straight, so go figure. Just when you though you had everything figured out reality throws you a curve ball.
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I am already on record somewhere as being a person who struggles with the concept of belly dance as done by men, as well as one who is willing to be enlightened, so I am reading this thread with interest. I agree in my heart with A'isha that belly dance is feminine in essence, which is not to say men should keep their shimmies under wraps and not follow their own passion for this dance or any other. What comes to mind on the subject of femininity and belly dance is one of Morrocco's essays on watching women dance for a laboring sister, encouraging her and helping her through a difficult and exclusively feminine experience with the movements of their own bodies.

More than once in my life, I have been the only woman or one of the only women working in a so-called masculine profession. I understand feeling defensive about the right to work- or dance- in a chosen field, about any criticism aimed my way for daring enter a bastion of masculinity, about searching for any precedents I could quote to make my own position more acceptable. In reading this thread and others re: the femininity/masculinity of belly dance, I sympathize with the struggle for full acceptance that male dancers are going through, and it appears most female dancers, in this forum at any rate, are more than willing to include their male brothers in Dancerhood, if you will.

That being said, I still believe belly dance is in essence feminine, and the dance as done by men is an interesting offshoot of the original middle eastern dances that were done and are done by women. My dears, a woman can dress in a kilt with a sporrain and tuck a skein dhu in her stocking and do the wildest, most heartfelt highland sword dance you can imagine, but traditionally, the kilt is worn only by men and the dance is done by men, and a woman interpreting this dance does not render the original dance anything less than masculine in essence, ancient female Celtic warriors not withstanding.

Women can do traditionally masculine dances and men can do traditionally feminine dances, but the essence of the dance changes with the gender of the dancer. And so what? To preserve the most ancient form of a dance as A'isha strives to do, and blessings on her head for it, does not mean all other forms are unacceptable and should be avoided. A'isha and I disagree on what can legitimately be called belly dance and what needs a new appellation, but I must agree with her re: the cultural femininity of the authentic middle eastern dances.

My two cents worth, with all due respect.
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That being said, I still believe belly dance is in essence feminine, and the dance as done by men is an interesting offshoot of the original middle eastern dances that were done and are done by women.

Women can do traditionally masculine dances and men can do traditionally feminine dances, but the essence of the dance changes with the gender of the dancer. QUOTE]

Dear Shanazel, or may I call you "Neanderthal Female," these two sentences would appear to directly contradict each other. Well, at least you got it "half right-" I believe the second statement is quite true!
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You can call me Neanderthal Female if you promise to send Grok to growl sweet nothings and ply me with sheeps.

Actually, the statements don't contridict each other, but I can see how you might interpret them that way. I can technically perform a highland sword dance in full kilt. You can technically perform a middle eastern dance in full bedlah. But neither of us changes the original dance's essence. We are doing offshoots of the original dances, and those offshoots are either masculine or feminine (depending on who's dancing here). The original dance retains the original essence.

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