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Old 08-12-2008, 10:24 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Yes, a participant event, that is what I saw and brought me to post it here. Also, that is why I mentioned social dance, as that is what it appeared to me, people who can dance in a middle Eastern style and seem to be doing so regardless of the audience, they were doing it for themselves.

I mentioned Tarik's videos of men dancing in a middle eastern style in one of the country's of origin, they, the males dancing were doing so for themselves, not an audience. Now they may not be technically correct in the eyes of a 'professional', but so what, they were dancing for themselves and the fun of it, a reflection of the music they hear and the atmosphere they absorb. That to me is the attraction, the letting go and the expression of art through dance as a natural human ability.


Maybe it is a chicken and egg scenario, what came first, social dance or performance for a viewing other.
To me this is nothing like the social dancing we see in Tarik’s videos.
In those videos we saw people having spontaneous fun, interacting with each other through the “language” of dance.

The dancers in this troupe seem to be too absorbed within themselves and their moves, as I mentioned in my previous post. Playing zills in synchronicity is an interaction, however it is kind of technical. I feel that it misses the individuality and personal expression we find when emotions (such as “I am having fun”, or “look at me, I am so crazy with this music!”) are expressed in the social dancing in Tarik’s videos. It is more emotionally extroverted, more social.

I hope I am making sense… I find it hard to express what I am trying to say here.

Also, I have no doubt that men can dance Middle Eastern dances and enjoy it wholeheartedly in a social setting. I just don’t think that this is proven by this video.
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Old 08-13-2008, 09:36 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Yes, a participant event, that is what I saw and brought me to post it here. Also, that is why I mentioned social dance, as that is what it appeared to me, people who can dance in a middle Eastern style and seem to be doing so regardless of the audience, they were doing it for themselves.

You see, I am coming to dance for the reason of having fun, and what I saw in that video is much of what I seek, the ability to have dance fun with others, for myself and those whom I may come to dance with, their fun, that to me, being a social dance. Socialising via dance.

I do understand various peoples thought to pick holes in the video, but if everyone was honest, there is no perfect dancer or dancer enviroment, holes can be picked with everything. And why do we seem to seek a perfection, when in reality there can be no such thing as humans are not perfect, to be perfect, we might become more like an automaton devoid of the things that make us human. I like the foibles of human kind, the imperfection, it is a situation which we can if we desire improve, but perfect I do not wish to see. I wish to see human and a humans best attempt to interpret the things they do in the best way they can, their best is more than acceptable to me.

If one looks at the video, most were out or to the side of the camera, the focus being upon the lone male doing his thing and his unsavoury antics with those assembled to watch. He was out on his own, whereas the other male was doing his thing with the others. There one can see two different dance characters, perhaps an extrovert and a not so extrovert person. My interest was with the later, he who danced with the others, the females, thus indicating to me that this dance can be performed effectively by both sexes, the two, male and female, their movement different, compliment each other.

Forgive me, if I appear wrong to many, but I do feel there is a lot of what can be described as a snobbery about dance, I understand the professional/amateur difference, but what one has to remember about professional, is that one does what they do for a living, it is no indication that they are the best that can be or better than an amateur, as is with the rest of us, in a job, we can be good or bad depending on ourselves and our interaction with our enviroment.

I mentioned Tarik's videos of men dancing in a middle eastern style in one of the country's of origin, they, the males dancing were doing so for themselves, not an audience. Now they may not be technically correct in the eyes of a 'professional', but so what, they were dancing for themselves and the fun of it, a reflection of the music they hear and the atmosphere they absorb. That to me is the attraction, the letting go and the expression of art through dance as a natural human ability.

What happened inthe video, was perhaps aimed at entertainment, but the dancers became caught up in their dance enjoyment and it reverted to a self interest, their enjoyment regardless of who is watching. That to me is good, if it is that, then it displays to me regardless of nationality and upbringing, the learning of a certain choreography become a natural expression of dance anywhere in the world, by any nationality.

Maybe it is a chicken and egg scenario, what came first, social dance or performance for a viewing other.
I understand where you are coming from with this.
The thing is, alot here have seen and done this kind of thing many many times so it will fail to impress.
It is not so much about snobberry but experience. That is not to say an experienced person cannot see the magic in the less experienced but there will be certian things which will remind them of themselves and perhaps some of the more embarrassing moments of their early days.

This looks like a small fete or festival where a local group have been invited to perform to perhaps add colour or offer something different.
I remember doing this sort of stuff in horrible home-made satin costumes and wafting about much worse than this.
I did not know any different at the time and was led by a teacher. I moved to another teacher and the public presentations were completely different and you had to be at a certain level and have a 'proper' costume to do it.
I dont know how to classify this style of dance in the video to be honest with you. If the public think it is Arabic/Middle Eastern then they are being mis-led really.
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Old 08-13-2008, 10:33 AM   #13 (permalink)
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A problem I have with this is that this is a "How to..." It's a little promo for a DVD showing how to be a male belly dancer.
All I see from this is a promo of a dancer who, as some have said ,advances on seated dancers and it looks as if they are uncomfortable.
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Question to be honest or not ... good question ?

I think the question that was asked by the original author ... what do others think ?
But when opinion was giving and he did not get the response he was looking for, Instead of just putting his argument his response was designed to doubt the honesty of the opinion was giving by others as well as accusation of snobbery.
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Thank you sooooo much for posting this clip .... OMG did you see that lady upfront when she covered her nose while he was assing her, instead of taking a good look at his beautiful asss .. that was sooooooo funny what did she think he was going to fart in her face or something , BTW was that CHBDFUION ? (Chippendale Belly Dance Fusion) also the music is soooooooo cool especially when every one pitched in with the sagat ..... I kick the chair off and danced all night long to the tune, sorry cannot get it out of my head until now.

PS I did not see the clip Tarik posted put this one is sooooo much better it has that social dance thing all over it
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I hope this is the kind of honesty the original author was looking for ....
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Oooh Masrawy! I very nearly spluttered tea all over the keyboard there... wow.

I didn't get "social dance" at all - looked to me like a troupe at an event improvising in front of an audience, not people spontaneously having fun dancing. If they had looked like they were having a great time maybe the response here might have been a bit more positive.

Aaargh, the zills, the zills....
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Oooh Masrawy! I very nearly spluttered tea all over the keyboard there... wow.

I didn't get "social dance" at all - looked to me like a troupe at an event improvising in front of an audience, not people spontaneously having fun dancing. If they had looked like they were having a great time maybe the response here might have been a bit more positive.

Aaargh, the zills, the zills....
You mean I am not the only one who hates the manic clattering...

Whoever our Wes is, he and his gang look like they are having more fun than their audience.
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I gather this is the whole thing.
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I think the question that was asked by the original author ... what do others think ?
But when opinion was giving and he did not get the response he was looking for, Instead of just putting his argument his response was designed to doubt the honesty of the opinion was giving by others as well as accusation of snobbery.
So in light of that and the absent of delete my posts button please accept the new post.
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Thank you sooooo much for posting this clip .... OMG did you see that lady upfront when she covered her nose while he was assing her, instead of taking a good look at his beautiful asss .. that was sooooooo funny what did she think he was going to fart in her face or something , BTW was that CHBDFUION ? (Chippendale Belly Dance Fusion) also the music is soooooooo cool especially when every one pitched in with the sagat ..... I kick the chair off and danced all night long to the tune, sorry cannot get it out of my head until now.

PS I did not see the clip Tarik posted put this one is sooooo much better it has that social dance thing all over it
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I hope this is the kind of honesty the original author was looking for ....
Well, I just had some serious images placed in my head at much too early in the morning!!

I think this clip will be the most hit on on this forum after this!!!

and I was trying to be polite in my response to it....
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I understand where both you and Khanjar are coming from. He is still new to this and so to see people dancing freely for him is wonderful, especially to see a guy since where he is guys are not exactly encouraged to participate in the dance. They have a hard time finding a teacher who will allow them to take classes much less perform!

On the other hand, for those of us who are more experienced, and ESPECIALLY those of us who know what Raks Sharki and Baladi are from a cultural perspective, we see it much differently. For me, my verdict is exactly as yours, HATED IT! The reasons why? For one thing the music. Oh my god! They're playing Djimbes for god's sake and the same rhythm over and over and over. And one that would only be used as an accent or brief transition at that. It reminds me of the old LPs when the needle would get stuck because there was a scratch! (Am I showing my age? I mean...CDs).

Main problem, this is meant to show men how they should dance. Yikes. This is my main gripe about the dance community in general. This dance has been removed from its cultural context for far too long. The dance is about emotional expression and musical interpretation through music. YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO HAVE A PERSONALITY AND HAVE FUN. Even when you are dancing solo, you are still sharing the moment with your friends. You are relating to the people around you. PEople in Egypt just get up and start dancing for strangers, its always in the context of sharing the moment with your social group, even if they are just watching. Even if the dancer is not very good, its the feeling which makes it come alive.


Its joyous, celebratory and real. The other dancers were just doing movement. Very robotic, no personality. What I saw did not relate to a people or a culture. I saw bad costumes and artificial dancing to fake music and a lot of stereotypical imagery, A TENT? Are you kidding me? It looks like it's straight out of a Sword and Sand Hollywood movie.

Okay, I'll just wrap up this rant by saying the problem was that it lacked the real soul and personality of the culture. I didn't feel the spirit of what I know and love, nor did I see the beauty of the dance whether the dancer is male or female.

I could watch either of these clips all day long. Not because they are great dancers, they're not. You can find dozens of guys anywhere in Egypt that are much better. But its the spirit they dance with. It's fun, it makes you want to join them and that is what Baladi is all about, its about feeling. I won't get into the whole dynamics of what should be there in the context of professional level dancing, especially as it pertains to men, because that is a whole 'nother can of worms and all of you know what I'm talking about!

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