Amanda (was Aziyade)
Well-known member
Rita Hayworth = my standard of beauty. JUST love her! sigh...
4. Youth club crowd: Be under thirty with an athletic body style. Base your costumes on popular trend of the day: Anime, S&M, Steampunk, Furry, SciFi, Vampire, etc. Include bizarre unnatural looking hair. Dance to techno or other popular music while doing excessive isolations, locks & pops, stomach work. Strive for cutting edge props which likely have nothing to do with the Middle East. Look like a rave girl about to bite someone and your fame is assured.
So, if we have a friend who wears a super short pink mini skirt with ruffles that she got from GAP Kids, we should say "Hey, that looks great on you!" even though you can see her 52 yr old butt cheeks pop out every two steps?
yes exactly, just without the eye rollingHey, if she feels beautiful and is happy... who cares if she looks like a street prostitute?! Why would you say anything? Who cares about what's age appropriate! Who cares about that stuff!
Well... yeah. If she is happy with her new skirt, then who are you to tell her that it is not appropriate? If she is a friend and her buttcheeks truly are showing (no matter if they are 17 y o or 52) you could suggest that she wear leggings underneath, or something like that, but IMO what other people wear is none of our business.
yes exactly, just without the eye rolling
So you would suggest editing the outfit? Then you do actually care what other people wear. Oh, so we agree then.
""This sociological term has been defined as "the rules that a group uses for appropriate and inappropriate values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors. These rules may be explicit or implicit. Failure to follow the rules can result in severe punishments, including exclusion from the group." They have also been described as the "customary rules of behavior that coordinate our interactions with others."
The social norms indicate the established and approved ways of doing things, of dress, of speech and of appearance. These vary and evolve not only through time but also vary from one age group to another and between social classes and social groups. What is deemed to be acceptable dress, speech or behavior in one social group may not be accepted in another.
~Wikipedia
That is where these "standards" come from. And yes they do apply TO EVERYONE. Reguardless of if you support the norms within your (or even as a whole, our) society they still effect you and apply to you because the mass majority around you does believe in these standards.
I look at magazines of "beautiful women" and I find that I believe beauty is something different then what I see. But does that stop the masses around me from compairing me to that magazine beauty?
So you would suggest editing the outfit? Then you do actually care what other people wear. Oh, so we agree then.
I wonder how it is, that the longest thread on this site is, for the most part, dedicated to making fun of bd outfits that many of the members think look awful, yet the same members claim that they don't care about whats considered appropriate for fashion and don't have an opinion on what other people wear.