I know how you feel as an auburn haired pale skined girl myself.
I'm not a proffesional make-up artist but I've had some experiance in this field for that all important stage make-up.
For eye shadow I normaly go with silver or gold depending on my costum's coins or highlights. I find that light cream colored eyeshadow looks really nice too.
I've not had a lot of luck with lipstick that looks ME though.
And of course instead of black eyeliner or mascara use dark brown. But you probably already kew that.
