I'm happy with my weight. Of course I'd love the distribution of my weight to be a little different and for my legs to be a little longer to take up the excess weight from my bum and hips - but overall I'm really happy with how I look. I'm flexible, my body is mainly in proportion, I'm healthy, and all the bits work basically.
I think women often dress to suit other people - and often not for the men in our lives, but for other women! The men in my life often say they don't really want to see women in heels and makeup with fussed up hair, they'd like to see us more natural, yet so many women wear things like high heels and loads of makeup and hairsprayed hair before they walk out the door!
At least I'm honest with myself, I dress the way I do for myself - I love nice colours and feeling like my clothes suit me and my size and shape. Tough if the people around me don't think it's OK - although I did have to pull my horns in at work when it was decided that perhaps sequins and hip belts don't really belong in a Pain Management Centre!! wot's wrong wivvit I say?!!!
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He wahine, he taonga- Every woman is a treasure(Maori proverb)
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