are we to tuf in the forum?
Hi everybody,please dont take this wrong or personal it is just a question
Sometimes i feel that we are so tuf ......
I have to say that i am worried many times to reply to post,because i am afraid that the people that dont agree whit what i say reply and not in a kind way......
I have done the same last week and it still bugs me
I also feel that now other people looze out because they ask questions ,that i know i can help them with but i am afraid to answer because other people perhaps think differant and will reply in a not nice way and than it becomes a argument and i believe that that is not nice.....
Also i think that most people know i am not a pc person and i perhaps dont understand that forums work that way?? or suppose to be that way?? i know we are here to share and learn....But can we not try to make it a bit sweeter and nice so it will be a more friendly forum? I realy use to like this forum,but lately i dont know....perhaps i have been visiting the wrong threads? or do i have christmas bleu,s??
I also want to ask this ,would it be ok that i reply to people,s post privatly? when they ask advice and questions? or is that not fair to the forum?
Please dont take this post personal,perhaps i am just selfish and want everybody to be like real friends because that is what i would like to see....So my request ......Can we try to alway,s be more kind when we post and reply ?? i think it will benefit the forum....Again i ask please dont take it personal....Wishing you all a wunderfull Christmas....and have a nice day Lydia
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