Lydia dubai

Hi Gypsirose i think that gossip and bad talk is just a human thing it happens everywhere not only in the bellydance world,you cant knock it how ever you try and whatever you try i think people will always gossip ...if it is not about your dancing it,s about your color,or background or ????? i think you can not do much realy,when people say things about me that are not nice i usely pretend that i dont know what they say ,and give them my extra nice side!!That usely makes them feel bad in the end...that they talked about me in the first place....if it is realy bad i will adres them about it do.....i dont know if anybody feels unpopulair?? that has nothing to do with gossip i geuss that feeling must come from your inside and you have to work on that so you feel better about yourself.....people use to talk bad about me when i was a child i because my background and i got lots of bad looks and bad words that verry much continued when i became a adult for the same reason....it only got worse when i became a bellydancer!! i use to feel bad and left out...but now beeing who i am i dont care what people say ,because i know myself and when i look in the mirror and look at myself i mean from the inside i like myself i like who i am ,i like what i did and do in life,how i treat others,and what i have achieved ...so who cares what the world say??? just be yourself if you are confident nothing realy matters ,you make sure you do the correct thing in life ..beside that what is good for my life is perhaps not good for your life.... so just live the life you think is best for you,it is your life and let them gossip......in Holland there is a saying ,,ze kunnen beter van je praten dan van je eten,, it means it is better that they talk about you than eat from you!! Have a great day Lydia